The Holidays Are Soul Food for the Emotionally Frazzled

Last Update: December 12, 2011


I love the holidays, especially Christmas. The whole world is okay at Christmas. That's the magic of the season, the glorious transcendence.

Everything becomes more vivid this time of year: the colors, all the lights, the razzmatazz, the hustle and bustle. Love the spirit of generosity that prevails, even amidst holiday preparations and other stresses. Holidays are a good excuse to decompress and step out of the day to day.

Was in New York this week on business, but took in the sights just like a tourist. Everything was quick paced and festive. Actually, the department store windows could have been a lot better, but the tree in Rockefeller Center was splendid, always majestic! Tourists were everywhere. People seemed to be shopping, which made me happy. But buying as much as usual, I'm not sure. There was a line to see the famous Rockettes, a yearly Christmas ritual for New Yorkers and out of towners alike.

As children, my sisters and I were treated every year to the Nutcracker, the Rockettes and a movie at Radio City Music Hall, dinner, and  FAO Swartz..., no,  FAO Swartz came later.  I brought my nieces in for the same treats. Since I was living in the city at the time, we usually extended the fun over several days.

I got a little nostalgic this year for what was, for times past.

I'm not sure if this is what happens when people grow up or get older, but it occurred to me that some of the heart and "soul" that was, is no longer. It's as if the bunch of balloons that lifted us all to greater heights had been deflated somewhat. Something is missing. Can't be youth that's missing, since I haven't really grown up,  though also,  haven't been a kid in many moons either.  Is it the economy?

Of course, I checked out the department stores. My marketing assignment: Lord & Taylor, Bendel's, Saks, Bergdorf's. Unfortunately, Didn't have enough time for Bloomies, Barney's, or Macy's. Honestly, the customary, comfortable, taken for granted "soul" was missing everywhere.

I've come to the conclusion that as a society,  we need to give each other a vitamin B12 shot.

Is now the time to open the floodgates? Put on your best game? Renaissance anyone?

You tell me.

"As sure as the spring will follow the winter, prosperity and economic growth will follow recession."

        - Bo Bennett


 

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