Learning to take a break
I've had one of those really frustrating days when I feel I've achieved nothing in terms of working on my websites or writing articles.
I must have spent about 4 hours this morning trying to get an Amazon link on a website. Now I may not always know what I'm doing, but I've done this lots of times before. Could I get it to work?. No I couldn't - I must have downloaded about 7 different Amazon plugins and I couldn't get any of them to work. Yes I do have a product key, a secret key and my affiliate id. I even just tried copying a link from inside my account and dropping it into the site. None of them worked. I could have cheerfully screamed (but I didn't) - it was very early in the morning and I like to keep on friendly terms with my neighbours.
After indulging in some negative self-talk, telling myself how useless I am, I decided to walk away and do something else. I played the piano, went for a hike and wrote some letters and drafted a section of a dissertation I'm doing. I'm no good at doing nothing so sitting and relaxing wasn't an option.
I came back to the thorny issue of my amazon links about an hour ago. What happened? I did it in less than 5 minutes.
So what have I learnt today? As a coach who talks to people about confidence issues (including time management) I need to learn to take my own advice and take regular breaks. It's often counter productive to keep working away at something when a break refreshes the mind.
I've now put up a large notice over my desk saying 'Take a Break' . All I've got to do is remember to look at it!
If I can be of help I'll walk you through the steps. Just PM me and we can do it together if you like.