Power in Spontaneity

Last Update: June 04, 2011

In most things, go on automatic if you can. I do my best work when I'm not really trying. It's very freeing to be rid of inhibition and fear. The big perk is: that's exactly when you are at your best.

IM efforts will benefit by that frame of mind as well. No stress!

If spontaneity is not natural for you, practice it. It's a shame that spontaneity is trained out of us in schools. We have to recapture it. So, let's be like children again. We can get it back without drugs and alcohol, by just by being high on life and letting go.

John McEnroe, the tennis champion, when asked "How do you do it?" replied..."I don't really think about it. I just do it."

It's often a mistake to think too much. Bogs you down. A bigger mistake is to talk too much about what you are doing. If you insist on explaining it, chances are you'll inhibit yourself because you get all wrapped up in the "how" and results. Chances are you'll create limitations with words and linear thinking. It slows you down and even prevents you from achieving your heights. It's like over folding the egg whites into a souffle batter. I'm not putting down being articulate, but sometimes explaining yourself and the process, robs you of the energy that you need to just go out and do it. Have you read "The Inner Game of Tennis" by John McEnroe? Whoops! I mean Tim Gallwey. My mistake. Great book. I apply Gallwey's coaching to everything. Not always easy, but it works.


The shortcut to success is just do it! 

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Thadius Premium
Wow, well said Joan. Yeah not over analyzing things is definitely something im working on so it doesn't hold up progress. I can still remember talking to a Real Estate agent about some of my ideas and him asking about a thousand questions. In the end when he understood my goals, I was just turned off from actually getting it done, lol. Never again!
jatdebeaune Premium
I know Wayne. In some things you have to be analytical. You're right. There is a balance. I like your bridge question and am Googling the answer. Nothing wrong with being analytical as long as it doesn't paralyze you or limit you. We all have an inner knowing, that when tapped, we can create miracles. I also tend to get too analytical at times, but have observed how I can get where I want to go easier and better by just "letting go." Artists often take drugs to get to that state where they can express from a deeper level of their being. Scientists who are usually very analytical tune in to their inner spaces too.
Wayne Hudler Premium
Oh Joan you challenge me.

I am an analytical, straight line, connect-the-dots kind of thinker. The how and why questions have always been a part of my life.

I can remember as a very young boy how much I frustrated my parents with being so inquisitive. Questions like, "What holds up the middle of a bridge?" really had them struggling to give me the answers.

No you suggest I should just do it. Plow full speed ahead with only the goal in mind and a figure it out as I go approach.

I have often envied those that succeed with that kind of view.

I play golf frequently. Those I play with you just "do it" while on the course amaze me.

I have to think about the way the ball is lying, the weather, the elevation, the pin placement, hazards, shot shape, ball flight....

See I know that easy to over think but it is also just as easy to under think. The balance is the trick. In golf, IM or life in general.

Struggling to stay balanced. Admiring those that do.
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