Last week 04h00am my girlfriend woke me up out of a deep sleep and said....  "Hey Johan it is positive" (A3- that is my girlfriends Name) I was in a deep sleep... "HUH" (Me) "You are going to be a DAD" (A3) Eich...What a relieve... I am 44 and always wanted to have a baby... this is also a 1st. the same as finding this site... I was looking for something or someone to teach me, but these so called Guru's just want to sell, sell, sell.....   Thanks for eve