Power in Spontaneity
In most things, go on automatic if you can. I do my best work when I'm not really trying. It's very freeing to be rid of inhibition and fear. The big perk is: that's exactly when you are at your best.
IM efforts will benefit by that frame of mind as well. No stress!
If spontaneity is not natural for you, practice it. It's a shame that spontaneity is trained out of us in schools. We have to recapture it. So, let's be like children again. We can get it back without drugs and alcohol, by just by being high on life and letting go.
John McEnroe, the tennis champion, when asked "How do you do it?" replied..."I don't really think about it. I just do it."
It's often a mistake to think too much. Bogs you down. A bigger mistake is to talk too much about what you are doing. If you insist on explaining it, chances are you'll inhibit yourself because you get all wrapped up in the "how" and results. Chances are you'll create limitations with words and linear thinking. It slows you down and even prevents you from achieving your heights. It's like over folding the egg whites into a souffle batter. I'm not putting down being articulate, but sometimes explaining yourself and the process, robs you of the energy that you need to just go out and do it. Have you read "The Inner Game of Tennis" by John McEnroe? Whoops! I mean Tim Gallwey. My mistake. Great book. I apply Gallwey's coaching to everything. Not always easy, but it works.
The shortcut to success is just do it!
I am an analytical, straight line, connect-the-dots kind of thinker. The how and why questions have always been a part of my life.
I can remember as a very young boy how much I frustrated my parents with being so inquisitive. Questions like, "What holds up the middle of a bridge?" really had them struggling to give me the answers.
No you suggest I should just do it. Plow full speed ahead with only the goal in mind and a figure it out as I go approach.
I have often envied those that succeed with that kind of view.
I play golf frequently. Those I play with you just "do it" while on the course amaze me.
I have to think about the way the ball is lying, the weather, the elevation, the pin placement, hazards, shot shape, ball flight....
See I know that easy to over think but it is also just as easy to under think. The balance is the trick. In golf, IM or life in general.
Struggling to stay balanced. Admiring those that do.