I read several blogs this morning about WA members being dissed for their work. So I'll re-tell the story that helped change my life. Put a bunch of live crabs in a bucket. Of course you are getting ready to cook them. One crab says wait a minute I'm out of here and starts climbing out of the bucket - which they can easily do. Yet all of the other crabs grab him and pull him back preventing his escape. Remember this when you are criticized for crawling out of your current hole. Have a nice day.